NEGATIVE SELF ESTEEM- a psychological disorder

ImageDo you ever wonder, why some people just judge you from a distance without really knowing who you truly are, your worth and the value you place on yourself ? sometime ago, I let the opinions of people control my life and emotions, I lived off the complements and praises I received from people and on the days I did not get those complements I felt bad and criticism destroyed me, even constructive ones. I was living with ”low-self esteem”  until I realized who I AM!low-self-esteem blog

Lowself esteem is not a respecter of persons!! you can have all you want and still feel low about yourself… I like to call it a psychological disorder.  I just want to reach out to everyone who get to read this post, living with low-self esteem, I have been there and it is not a good place to be or rather a good position to be. I encourage you to start seeing the good in you.  I challenge you to:

  • Discover who you truly are
  • Appreciate your uniqueness
  • Be good to yourself 
  • Forgive yourself of the past mistakes and MOVE ON!

Most of these complements we build our esteem and worth on are baseless. Truth be told, some of them are indirect insults (story for another day). 

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 ***UNTIL YOU PLACE VALUE ON YOURSELF, NO ONE WILL SEE YOUR WORTH***

: Toyeencoker      : @toyin1coker

 

 

 

 

 

Are You Really Beautiful?

 

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Beauty is undoubtedly one of the greatest assets of a female gender. Beauty is defined in diverse ways. But personally, I define beauty as a ‘total package…’  by this I mean having a beautiful internal to match the beautiful external. In other words, if you have a bad attitude, YOU ARE UGLY Kpom kwem! (full stop). I know we ladies ”love to look good”  BUT Never spend ”so much” on making your physicality look good when your character lives in abject poverty and suffers atrocious malnutrition. self development is an investment that yields dividends for life. Beauty they say lies in the eyes of the beholder,

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but no matter how beautiful something is, of what use is it if it doesn’t serve its purpose? What am i trying to say with this not so long epistle?

  • DEVELOP YOURSELF!
  • ACQUIRE SKILLS!
  • NURTURE YOUR SEED OF GREATNESS!
  • INVEST!
  • EXPLORE YOUR TALENTS!
  •  TAKE RISK AND
  • INFLUENCE PEOPLE POSITIVELY      

 

Because:

Beauty may fade but the way in which we influence people live forever…images (12)