G.R.I.T

Yemode was not the smarted, she has never been. Her siblings never forgot to remind her she was no Einstein, neither did her friends forget to give her that look for her uncountable “stupid” questions. Recently, I was in her office, she is my ‘senior friend’  and I was complaining on how much I was struggling finding motivation…

When Lemons don’t become Lemonade…

Hey guys, its been an awful long time! I know I know! Life really does happen and some of the time if we sit around waiting for situations to be perfect before we take the next step, we might never take that step… I have learnt that we have to be courageous enough to step…

My Heart Felt Message to You

Just like me, a lot of us are eager about 2017, we cannot wait to start the New year. 2016 has been one tough year, it has brought with it hard, very low and lonely times. Like a friend of mine said, ‘my year ended in October and I am just doing the mannequin challenge…

#SSMusings -1

Hey guys, if you follow me on social media then you must have seen one of my hashtags #ToyinsSSmusings; so what does this mean?

My Top 15 Life lessons of 2015

Hey guys, the year is gradually rounding up and it seems like the days go by faster as we approach the new year. 2015 has been a year for me! I had my own share of obstacles, failures, disappointments, especially those ones that make you question yourself, BUT on the brighter side, its been a…

T.O.R>N

Hey guys, I’m glad you visited the blog again. If its your first time, please take sometime to look around. I personally recommend you read “Dear Diary” and “Ahe’ Belemam”, you would love love love it! So, today, I’m researching on the recent outbreak of the ebola epidemic in West Africa (School work). Did you…

Golden Garbage

It was in the goodbyes the good and the bad that I saw your heart beneath your  frown and occasional smile That you pulled through all the pain to force a smile once in a while… I was never satisfied neither did I know your pain I was selfish… maybe not only wanted you to…

Ahe Belema’am

The very first day I met Ariel, I knew we belonged together. You can imagine how I felt when he asked me out, trust, as a sharp girl, I did some shakara. Our relationship was the standard, in fact it became a prayer point *My Father My father My Father (you must say it three times)…

Letter to phebe 2

Dear Phebe, I am sorry in advance but I have to be frank with you. You need to let go! And the earlier you do, the easier it is and the better. Why do you constantly put yourself in situations that make you feel this way? if I didn’t know you any better I would…